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LGBT Terminology 101

Understanding the gay community all starts with first knowing what the words all mean. Today I am going to share my LGBT terminology 101 for you. This is a breakdown at a beginners level of phrases, words and LABELS that often are used by our community to identify someone. If you have been reading my … Read more


80s Video Stores

You can’t think or talk about the 80s without talking about 80s video stores.   They were all the rage back then. Long before we had digital copies, iTunes, Netflix and so much more, we physically had to go to the video store to RENT movies.     If you grew up in this era, you … Read more


Coping Being Gay In Everyday Life

Coping being gay in everyday life, is something that is a challenge that never goes away.  Just when you think that you are just like everyone else, the “GAY RUG” is once again pulled out from beneath you.  Far to often it is when you least expect it to come up.   Other times, it … Read more


Classic 80s Fashion Part 2

As promised, I am continuing my post with the Classic 80s Fashion Part 2.   We talked a lot in the last post about what some main fashions were from the 80s.   I wanted to expand on that and touch base on some specific looks that rocked the 80s and some amazing classic fashion statements that … Read more


Classic 80s Fashion

Classic 80s fashion is one of the greatest things about the 80s era.   The styles were unlike any decade we had seen before.   If you grew up in the 80s, this isn’t going to be news to you.   Anyone that didn’t grow up than, will find this post a bit crazy.   When you actually sit … Read more

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Past Lesbian TV Show Characters

All we have to do is look back in TV history to see that there were very few past Lesbian TV show characters on TV.   It has only been the past decade or less that this seems to finally be changing. I remember growing up watching TV and while questioning my own identity I looked … Read more


11 Funny Things From The 80s

The 80s decades was such a unique and crazy time to be a kid.   There were some pretty funny things from the 80s, that people today would find very strange.   At the time though we thought that decade was the best ever.   We thought we had everything we needed.   Truly the funny part about … Read more


What Is Behind The Rainbow Flag Color Meanings

No matter where you live in the world, almost everybody knows that the LGBTQ community is represented by the rainbow-colored flag.   The “pride flag” as we call it.   Have you ever wondered what is behind the rainbow flag color meanings?   Does each color actually represent something unique?     In this post, I am going … Read more


Holiday Time And Family | My Memories

I often think about holiday time and family, especially back when I was a kid.   We all know that as we get older, the holidays are a completely different experience.   When you’re a kid the only thing that matters is fun, gifts and spending it with your cousins and extended family.     Youth has … Read more

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Are Records Coming Back

Are records coming back in style?   Music, fans that grew up before the mid to late 80s are all too familiar with the vinyl record.   For those of you that grew up after that, you may not realize that playing music at home on records was pretty much the only way we had … Read more